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45 Years

A church meeting and a God-given promise that became decades of sacrifice, respect, and intentional recommitment.

Meet David and June Simpson

You know, I've been talking to God and He thinks you're as wonderful as I think you are. I feel like He is telling me you're the one!

Married 1981
Location Carmel-by-the-Sea, CA 93921, US
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In the humid Baton Rouge summers, life orbited around community and faith. The church hall pulsed with voices, potlucks, and melodies—June singing in the choir, David stirring chili in big iron pots for the men’s groups. Their courtship started with glances exchanged across hymnals and plates of cornbread, then moved to longer conversations and exchanges of laughter in crowded halls. For June, David was the handsomest man at church—a magnetic smile, with a careful, respectful manner, the sort her mother hinted was rare. For David, June stood out as someone who truly saw him, something he’d never felt in his big, boisterous family of eight. With June, he was singular, cherished, someone to rise to his best self for.

Their certainty about each other was part leap, part prayer. David, trusting his faith, announced one evening that God seemed to agree June was the one for him. That quiet declaration, woven with conviction, gave June a peace she hadn’t known before. Having seen marriages splinter in her own family, she was wary of making a mistake—yet together, faith became both anchor and compass. Their families might've seen only youth and inexperience, but the two of them felt guided and ready for the leap. They married young, and life galloped forward quickly with babies, night feedings, and the constant recalibration between becoming adults and managing a homeful of small lives. David sometimes juggled two jobs, sacrificing sleep and time, but never his sense of joy in providing. June, running on adrenaline and hopes, learned the art of balancing care for children with care for a husband equally committed to their future.

Years added new dimensions to their love—not just the grand gestures, but the steady ones. Theirs became a marriage built on mutual regard and delight in the ordinary: the way June could make a home feel like sanctuary, or the way David washed dishes cheerfully, as if every small deed for her was a privilege. They fished, wandered beaches hand-in-hand, visited far-off places, and laughed over documentaries with their grandchildren pressed close. They were generous with each other's strengths and patient with each other's struggles—David providing so June could focus on the home, and June seeing not just the man David was, but the man he could be.

Not every chapter was easy. The 1990s brought distance, the ache of complacency, and the whisper of temptation. But they caught themselves before the rift widened, seeking counsel and making a deliberate choice to recommit. That dark season stripped away any notion that marriages sustain themselves without work. They learned to be intentional, no longer drifting, but rowing together—on hard days especially. Their pride in marriage became an everyday pulse, not a single memory but a thousand small moments where choosing each other made them stronger.

Looking back, David and June see the lines of faith, hard work, and respect holding the fabric of their life together. If their children and grandchildren have inherited anything, they hope it’s the knowledge that love does not “just happen”—it’s built daily, chosen daily, with effort and grace. Their greatest lessons are quiet ones: to show respect even in hard times; to remember that a good marriage is not a binary choice between misery and divorce, but a pathway to grow and stay, and be happy together; and Seek to put God first in your relationship. For June and David, the ordinary and the sacred are inextricable, woven together through decades of walking by each other's side, building a legacy felt in every generation that follows.

Words from those who love David and June

With her, I was one of a kind, not one of a gaggle!
It isn't a choice between staying married and being miserable or getting divorced. You can choose to stay married and not be miserable!
With her, I was one of a kind, not one of a gaggle!
It isn't a choice between staying married and being miserable or getting divorced. You can choose to stay married and not be miserable!

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from David and June after 45 years...

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At those times when you don't feel loving, choose to respect the other person anyway.
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It isn't a choice between staying married and being miserable or getting divorced. You can choose to stay married and not be miserable!
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Seek to include God in your relationship.
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